how much thought-provoking is 'Provoked' ?

Watched the movie 'Provoked' yesterday. For once, Aishwarya Rai has done an excellent job. The role had no need of histronics,hence our Ms Rai was able to carry it off so well, the subdued,scared,stiff Indian wife. Jag Mundhra might be a soft-porn/porn director but with this movie, he has shown a real issue very well. I don't want to play spoil-sport by retelling the tale. Also, because I recommend this movie,especially to the women out there!

Domestic violence,sexual assault,physical abuse,in-house rape is a realistic issue our society is facing,globally. The feminists might say 'Men are dogs' and blame them for this. On the contrary, I realized that the cause(and I mean the root cause!) for this is a WOMAN herself!

Women readers,don't be surprised, don't blame the men all the time. Instead, as socially responsible entities, can we do the following ?

1. Firstly,as wives,girlfriends or fiancees, we should NOT PUT UP with any form of violence from the stronger sex. If a man abuses us, just walk out and tell the whole world about it.(Watch the movie and see that if Kiranjit could do it, we could too!)
2. As sisters,let our brothers know that a woman from another household is just like one of us, and that if he cannot tolerate us being beaten up, then he should not do the same to another girl.
3. As friends,put it across to our men-friends that a woman is a human being first and to accord respect to a human being is more important than a succesful career or anything else in this world. If a man doesn't treat us well, just GET OUT and spill the beans! The world should beware of such people.
4. Most importantly, as mothers,bring up our sons to regard a woman and love her but DO NOT support any form of violence from his side. It is high time we stop the 'Beta hua hain','ghar ka chiraag','perpetrator of our lineage' attitude. This bloody virus is,IMO,the root cause for this disease.
5.As women,wherever there is domestic violence found, rise up to the occasion in some way,instead of warding it off with a 'cant be helped' nod. We need our men, yes, but we don't need them to hit us, we need them to give us support,respect and love.
Say this to a man :- 'I need U for a SHOULDER' (copied from the movie dialogue...)